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Why You Can Feel Lonely Even When You're Never Alone
Being around people and being known by them aren't the same thing. Most weeks run entirely on the first one.
The calendar's full. The group chat never stops. And somehow, most nights, there's still a specific kind of quiet that none of that touches.
Being around people and being known by them aren't the same thing, and it's possible to have plenty of one without any of the other.
It usually creeps in slowly: conversations that stay on the surface by habit, not choice. Showing up as everyone else's version of you because it's easier than finding out if anyone wants the real one.
That gap doesn't close by adding more plans. It closes by letting at least one relationship go deeper than the rest, which takes more risk than another dinner with the same six people.
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